To make a woman trust you, some approaches must be followed. When trying to get to know someone new, expecting the person to trust you at that moment can be tough to earn and even tougher to keep. If you’re planning on dating or having a long-term relationship with someone, one of the most important things you can do is build her trust and make her feel safe with you. Here are ten ways you can go about it.
Here are the 9 best ways to make a woman trust you:
1) Just Be Yourself
A woman will trust you as soon as she senses that you’re being genuine and being yourself. Trying to be someone else is a turn-off because it shows your lack of confidence in yourself. If you act as if everything is perfect all of the time, women will eventually start thinking something is wrong.
Your true self should be confident and personable, yet vulnerable and understanding. Let her see who you really are so she can gain your trust—and so that she can earn yours in return.
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The more you show someone who you really are, that you’re genuine and not afraid of being yourself, will earn her trust and get her to open up. If you act as if everything is perfect all of the time, women will eventually start thinking something is wrong. Showing them your vulnerabilities, on your part, will help relieve some of their own insecurities about themselves.
2) Talk About Positive Things
If you’re in love with someone, chances are, you already know what those things are. Express your affection and admiration for her by talking about positive things: Compliment her character—she’s ambitious or beautiful.
Share memories that will be special to both of you, like how she made you laugh when you felt miserable or how she always helped with homework during grueling hours of studying.
One thing is certain: relationships don’t just happen; they take time and work to cultivate. Trust is an essential element of any relationship, whether it’s personal or professional. Once you have trust, you can begin building other areas—communication, friendship, and so on—but without it?
3) Compliment Her
Women love compliments and it’s one of the ways you can make her trust you. It’s really simple to say something like I like your jacket, is it new? Or that color dress really brings out your eyes. Complimenting her will definitely win you some points but don’t overdo it, especially if she doesn’t know you well.
How do you know if you’re complimenting her well? The truth is that women want attention. They want someone to look at them, notice their appearance and approve of it. So any compliment related to her appearance will make her feel special.
Always make sure your compliments are honest, true, and simple. Complimenting her by telling her she looks beautiful in a photo or something she wrote online is good but also complements what she wears.
4) Be Honest With Her
Women are generally more in tune with their feelings than men. She’ll be able to tell if you’re being genuine or not, and will be turned off by anything less than honest. When she feels like you’re open with her, it makes her feel comfortable enough to trust you.
So be honest with her, and let her know what you’re feeling. Don’t try to hide it; just be straight up with her. If she really cares about you, she’ll appreciate your honesty and trust that your feelings aren’t going to change overnight.
5) Speak Slowly
When trying to make a woman trust you, speak slowly and deliberately. Women trust that those who speak slowly and clearly are putting thought into what they’re saying, whereas people who rush through speech are likely thinking more about themselves than you.
Speak like you’re speaking to an audience of millions – especially when in public with her – demonstrating that you value her input and thoughts as much as your own. And if she is someone you really care about, talk like you care.
Women instinctively trust that people who speak slowly and clearly put thought into what they’re saying, whereas rushed speech usually indicates someone with an agenda. Show that you value her input as much as your own by speaking slowly and deliberately.
6) Stay Away From Negative Topics
Asking about or discussing negative topics from her past could very well trigger her worst fears and result in pushing her away. For example, I once asked my date how she got over a recent divorce (I wasn’t trying to be rude, just curious).
She responded by saying that talking about it makes her feel vulnerable and angry, which was clearly not what I was looking for in conversation. Needless to say, she left shortly after dinner was over…in tears. Yikes!
The key takeaway from that experience is that asking negative questions or telling negative stories makes people feel vulnerable. There’s no need to make her feel worse than she already does by mentioning something painful in her past.
If you are going to talk about her past, focus on positive topics, like where she’s going in life or what she’s up to now.
7) Don’t Lie!
Don’t lie! If you don’t want to tell her something, just say so. There’s no need for deception or lying here. Your partner will likely appreciate your honesty and ability to communicate rather than be left wondering what you aren’t telling them.
Sure, it can hurt when we hear things we don’t want to hear, but it beats being lied to over and over again and never knowing whether we should believe anything you say!
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There’s no reason why you should tell white lies here. If you don’t like something she said or did, let her know. Instead of saying I love it! If you don’t, try saying I understand why you might not love it, but I do love it for these reasons.
8) Ask What She Wants From You
Women are not so much complicated as they are different. If you’re trying to make a woman trust you, then you should probably stop doing what she wants and start doing what she needs.
Women will rarely tell you what they need; sometimes it takes another woman to explain it. So if you want her trust, ask her specifically why she is uncomfortable with you, or if she will give it, ask for feedback about what exactly she wants from you.
The best thing you can do is ask her what she wants from you. The woman that needs to trust you needs and appreciates honesty, so be honest with her from the beginning.
9) Give Her Space If She Asks For It
It’s perfectly fine for her to ask for space and she should be able to trust you not to hover or obsess over her if she does. If you see that something is troubling her, do ask if there’s anything you can do—and then give her time and space if she says no.
Be understanding; it’s important that she feels free enough around you (and safe) so that she can express any concerns.